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I’m Proud to be a NON-SMOKER!

Twenty years ago, I quit smoking. I was 40 years old. I realized at that point that, if I kept smoking, I would have smoked for over half my life. For some reason that was significant to me.  And I quit.

Last year I turned 60. I still don’t smoke. That means that, now, I’ve been a nonsmoker for over two-thirds of my life. And that’s a pretty good feeling.

I’ll admit, there are still days I get the urge to smoke. And on those days, I swear I could smoke a mile-long cigarette. But, I know, if I have even one puff, I’ll be back to smoking over two packs a day before I know it.

Twenty years ago, a pack of cigarettes cost under a buck. The stark reality is, today, I could not afford to smoke.

And when I smoked, I could smoke at work, and I could smoke in restaurants, and I could smoke while I walked around the mall. From what I understand there are movements today that want to keep people from smoking in their own homes. I don’t know how smokers do it these days. The pressure must be outrageous.

And there are health reasons, too, which I’m not going to get into. But I will say that even though I’m 20 years older, I feel better now than I ever did as a younger smoker.

I’m not going to harp on smokers. There are a lot of reasons smokers should quit and smokers know those reasons. It wasn’t easy becoming a non-smoker. I’ll admit quitting was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.

But I’ve never regretted becoming a nonsmoker. Ever.

    

The above pictures are from old Life Magazines.

CORRECTION TO ABOVE:   Twenty years ago, cigarettes cost about $1.87 a pack (not less than $1 as I remembered).  As we age, the memory is the first thing to go.  :)

 
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Posted by on February 25, 2012 in Aging, Health, Uncategorized

 

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Aging Gracefully – We’re NEVER Too Old to Learn

Turning 60 prompted me to think of ways I could  “age gracefully.”  I believe this subject deserves attention so I’ve decided it will be a “regular post” on this blog.

One of my favorite sayings is “we are never to old to learn.” And I believe that to “age gracefully” we must continue to learn.

What have you always dreamed of doing? Come on, there’s got to be something. Maybe you didn’t have time to do it because you were building your career and/or raising children. Well, YOU can be a beginner even if you’re “old.” Quit saying, “I’m too old to…” Embrace learning. Jump in feet first and have fun.

When I turned 57, I decided to return to an old hobby: creative writing. I taught myself how to write screenplays and I returned to writing a novel. I was having fun with my writing and I decided to take it seriously. So, I set a goal.

Now goals can cause problems if they’re not realistic. So I made sure my creative writing goal was realistic. My goal was this: “Before I turn 85 I will publish a novel or have a screenplay produced.”

I’m pleased to tell you that when I was 58, I had two of my short scripts filmed. And two weeks before my sixtieth birthday, I published a novel. (It is titled Windfall and, if you’re interested, it can be purchased at Amazon.) I’m currently writing a novel titled Finding Verity. And, this year, I’m planning to write Windfall’s sequel in a screenplay format.

Think of all the things that are out there to learn. Pick one. Or two. Or more. And have fun because learning new things IS FUN!

Just remember… You are never too old to learn!

Learning new things does not have to be expensive. Here are some things you might want to think about, just a few ideas…

Collecting: stamps, dolls, butterflies, comics, records, etc.

Fabric Arts: sewing, quilting, knitting, crocheting, embroidery, etc.

Fine Art: sketching, painting, etc.

 Foreign language: learn to speak and read Chinese, Spanish, German, etc.

Photography: digital cameras make it fun and easy. Take pictures of insects, landscapes, still life, etc.

Read: Join a book club!

Research a topic or person: the Victorian era, Abraham Lincoln, etc. Learn everything you can about that topic and then consider writing a book about what you learn.

Scrapbooking: Preserve your memories for generations.

Sports: Golf, water aerobics, yoga, etc.

Volunteer: Teach reading at your library, become a child’s advocate, visit shut-ins.

Writing: Start a blog, write poetry or short stories, a column for your local newspaper, etc.

Expect to read more about “aging gracefully” on this blog.  And there will be more on hobby’s in the future, too.

In the meantime, remember…

We’re NEVER too old to learn! 

 

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We Need a GDI Political Party

I attended college forty years ago and I was damned proud of the fact that I was a GDI (goddammed independent). Looking back, perhaps, it would have been nice to have pledged a sorority and made more life-long friends. But this blog is not about sororities or friendship!

When I was in high school, I worked for Richard Nixon. Even though he was impeached, I still think he was a pretty good president. The first time I registered to vote, I registered Republican. Since then, I’ve always considered myself a Republican.

But this year… Well, I might still be a registered Republican, but I’m thinking more and more like a GDI. No, I don’t think I’ll vote for anyone “in the other party” but I’m not too happy with what’s going on with the Republicans right now.

I am sick of the bickering and the name-calling and taking things out of context. And I know, once the Republicans choose a candidate and Obama jumps into the fray, it’s only going to get worse.

Maybe it’s time for a GDI party. Is that what the Tea Party is supposed to be?

I’m just saying…

Fate of the Radical Party (1918)

Maybe

 
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Posted by on February 11, 2012 in Politics, Social, Uncategorized

 

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