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Aging Gracefully – We’re NEVER Too Old to Learn

Turning 60 prompted me to think of ways I could  “age gracefully.”  I believe this subject deserves attention so I’ve decided it will be a “regular post” on this blog.

One of my favorite sayings is “we are never to old to learn.” And I believe that to “age gracefully” we must continue to learn.

What have you always dreamed of doing? Come on, there’s got to be something. Maybe you didn’t have time to do it because you were building your career and/or raising children. Well, YOU can be a beginner even if you’re “old.” Quit saying, “I’m too old to…” Embrace learning. Jump in feet first and have fun.

When I turned 57, I decided to return to an old hobby: creative writing. I taught myself how to write screenplays and I returned to writing a novel. I was having fun with my writing and I decided to take it seriously. So, I set a goal.

Now goals can cause problems if they’re not realistic. So I made sure my creative writing goal was realistic. My goal was this: “Before I turn 85 I will publish a novel or have a screenplay produced.”

I’m pleased to tell you that when I was 58, I had two of my short scripts filmed. And two weeks before my sixtieth birthday, I published a novel. (It is titled Windfall and, if you’re interested, it can be purchased at Amazon.) I’m currently writing a novel titled Finding Verity. And, this year, I’m planning to write Windfall’s sequel in a screenplay format.

Think of all the things that are out there to learn. Pick one. Or two. Or more. And have fun because learning new things IS FUN!

Just remember… You are never too old to learn!

Learning new things does not have to be expensive. Here are some things you might want to think about, just a few ideas…

Collecting: stamps, dolls, butterflies, comics, records, etc.

Fabric Arts: sewing, quilting, knitting, crocheting, embroidery, etc.

Fine Art: sketching, painting, etc.

 Foreign language: learn to speak and read Chinese, Spanish, German, etc.

Photography: digital cameras make it fun and easy. Take pictures of insects, landscapes, still life, etc.

Read: Join a book club!

Research a topic or person: the Victorian era, Abraham Lincoln, etc. Learn everything you can about that topic and then consider writing a book about what you learn.

Scrapbooking: Preserve your memories for generations.

Sports: Golf, water aerobics, yoga, etc.

Volunteer: Teach reading at your library, become a child’s advocate, visit shut-ins.

Writing: Start a blog, write poetry or short stories, a column for your local newspaper, etc.

Expect to read more about “aging gracefully” on this blog.  And there will be more on hobby’s in the future, too.

In the meantime, remember…

We’re NEVER too old to learn! 

 

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We Need a GDI Political Party

I attended college forty years ago and I was damned proud of the fact that I was a GDI (goddammed independent). Looking back, perhaps, it would have been nice to have pledged a sorority and made more life-long friends. But this blog is not about sororities or friendship!

When I was in high school, I worked for Richard Nixon. Even though he was impeached, I still think he was a pretty good president. The first time I registered to vote, I registered Republican. Since then, I’ve always considered myself a Republican.

But this year… Well, I might still be a registered Republican, but I’m thinking more and more like a GDI. No, I don’t think I’ll vote for anyone “in the other party” but I’m not too happy with what’s going on with the Republicans right now.

I am sick of the bickering and the name-calling and taking things out of context. And I know, once the Republicans choose a candidate and Obama jumps into the fray, it’s only going to get worse.

Maybe it’s time for a GDI party. Is that what the Tea Party is supposed to be?

I’m just saying…

Fate of the Radical Party (1918)

Maybe

 
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Posted by on February 11, 2012 in Politics, Social, Uncategorized

 

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How to Save 35% at the Grocery Store…

Grocery stores and coupons have been around a long time!

Coupon, late 1800s or early 1900s

1936 Grocery Store

 This “coupon craze” picture can be dated to 1909

I save an average of 35 percent every week at the grocery store. And if I can do it, so can you!

If you watch Extreme Couponing on television, you might say that a 35 percent savings is not that great. But I save this much every week. It is a consistent savings. And I only buy products and brands I normally use.

I admit to using coupons. But the bulk of my savings is not from coupons. No, most of my savings comes from buying sale items. My mantra is BUY WHEN IT’S CHEAP, NOT WHEN I RUN OUT.

Every Sunday I clip coupons from the newspapers.

However, unlike extreme couponers, I only clip coupons I’ll use. If there are a lot of coupons in the paper I like, I’ll consider buying more papers. But, I don’t have a cat so you’ll never see me clipping coupons for cat food.

After clipping the coupons, I sort them and file them in a notebook.

I have them organized in two sections: food and nonfood. Within each section are sub-sections: drinks, snack foods, frozen, bakery, hair products, dental, laundry detergent, etc. You can have as many subsections as you want.

After clipping the coupons, I study the store fliers.

I shop at two grocery stores so I study two fliers. I look for products and brands my family uses, and I make note when those products are on sale.

I pay close attention to the front page of each flier because that’s where the best deals are advertised. When I look through the remaining pages, I pay attention to “special buys” or “buy one get one free” deals. But I only look for products I always buy.

I make a shopping list based on the sales advertised in the fliers. And then I match up sale items with coupons I might have in my notebook.

The next step is to add items to the list that I am out of (but aren’t on sale). Because I BUY WHEN IT’S CHEAP, NOT WHEN I RUN OUT, there aren’t a lot of these items but there are always some.

Milk is usually one of the items I pay full price for because it is never on sale and rarely are there milk coupons. And my son only eats one brand of chocolate chip cookies so I often have to pay full price for these. I do stock up on his cookies when they are on sale but often expiration dates get in the way and I run out.

Buying this way means I have a couple of months worth of meat in my freezer. It means I have six months worth of hair color in my closet, and almost a years worth of laundry detergent in my basement. No, I didn’t get these products free. I repeat, I am not an extreme couponer. But I did get the brands I like to use and I paid a lower-than-usual price.

I could go on and on about how I have stocked up on items my family likes because they are on sale. This includes pastas, razors, soups, sodas, breakfast cereals, canned meats, condiments, skin lotions, and more…  The bulk of the savings comes from shopping sales.

So the next time hamburger is on sale for $1.99 a pound, instead of buying three pounds, buy twenty pounds. Stock up when it’s priced low so you don’t have to pay a higher price at a later date.

Buy when its cheap, not when you run out…

 
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Posted by on February 4, 2012 in Financial, Miscellaneous

 

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Some Exercise is Better than Nothing!

I turned sixty this year. Yep. The big 60. I’ll tell you one thing… aging is not for the faint-hearted.

It seems like the older we get, the harder it gets to exercise. It’s hard to find time, and we have too many aches and pains that get in the way.

Folks, when we get to be our age it’s time to face reality. We can no longer think of exercise the way we did when we were in our twenties…

Maybe you can still play tennis, but you probably won’t be able to play for three hours like you did in your youth.

Maybe you still walk everyday but for most of us, jogging is a thing of the past. For me, even power walking is a memory because of arthritic knees.In fact my tread mill is gathering dust. I used to be able to do the splits. There is NO WAY that’s going to happen now!

But we can all do SOMETHING. And SOMETHING IS BETTER THAN NOTHING.

In my case, I had to finally say “no more” to my treadmill. But I got an exercise bike for Christmas.

No, this isn’t me!

Now, my husband wanted to put this bike in the basement (where my treadmill is) but I told him that if we did that, it would defeat the purpose. The reason I said this is two-fold.

Number one, arthritic knees hurt when you walk down stairs. I know myself well enough to know I avoid stairs if I can…

Number two, when I have time to ride my bike, I would rather be in my living room. And that’s because I want to watch television.

So, my exercise bike is in my living room. Yes, it’s crowded. Yes, an exercise bike is kind of weird in the living room. And, yes, I have to turn the bike when I’m done so people can get into the room. But now, when I watch the morning news or when I watch one of my favorite evening shows (NCIS, ALCATRAZ, THE GOOD WIFE, etc.) I can exercise.

I usually do 20 minutes in the morning and 25 minutes at night. This means MOST DAYS I’m getting a minimum of 45 minutes of exercise. Some of you might say that it would be better if I could do 45-60 minutes of exercise at one sitting. And, yes, in some people’s eyes this is true.

But SOMETHING is better than NOTHING.

A really weird bike!

If they can do it, so can we…

         

 
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Posted by on January 22, 2012 in Aging, Health

 

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Mine is Bigger & Better than Yours!

Have you ever had a friend who always has a story that is bigger, flashier, louder, or in some way better or worse than YOUR story? Every time you talk to this friend, they manage to change the subject so they’re talking about THEMSELVES rather than you? You might have just had the WORST day of your life but THEIR DAY WAS WORSE and that’s what they want to talk about.

Often, these people are the people we love most.

Some of these people have insecurities. They talk about themselves because they have a need to convince everyone they have some worth.

Some people have huge egos. And all they want to talk about is themselves because their egos need to be stroked. It really has nothing to do with you or their feelings for you. They just like themselves better.

But there’s another scenario.

Some people don’t want to hear your problems because they know they CAN’T HELP YOU. And when that happens they feel helpless and, since they don’t like feeling helpless, they change the subject.

Is there anything you can do in this situation?  I suppose the answer is… it depends on the people involved. But I suspect many of these folks don’t even know what they’re doing.

However, if the relationship is worth anything, you need to fight for your RIGHT TO BE HEARD!

Try bringing their avoidance to their attention. Let them know you want them to LISTEN TO YOU. Make sure they know you don’t expect them to solve your problems or fix anything… You just want to be heard.

Try it. You might see improvement. Or you might not. But it’s worth a try!  Don’t you think?

 

The Sun Sleeps

 
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Posted by on January 20, 2012 in Relationships

 

Before Martin Luther King Things Were Stupid…

When I was twelve years old, my family moved from Wisconsin to Texas. It was the early 1960s. Looking back, I remember being surprised at some of the cultural differences, specifically how black people were treated.  Here are examples of the kind of the things I saw as we drove from Wisconsin to Texas.

But seeing these things and experiencing them are two different things. Remember, I was only twelve…

On Saturdays, my parents took us to a small movie theater in LaPorte, Texas. The white people sat in the main section of the theater and the black people sat in the balcony. I thought it would have been nice to sit in the balcony but I wasn’t allowed because I was white. Of course, I’m sure there were black people who would have preferred to sit where I did.

It was all so stupid.

The same could be said for riding public transportation. When I rode the bus to school, I sat in the back and waved at cars behind us. However, when I rode the city bus, I could not sit in the back because this was where the black people sat.

Again… so stupid.

I came from a family of five kids so we had a relatively large house (five bedrooms). Once a month a lady came over and helped my mother give the house a good cleaning. The key here is the woman HELPED my mother, they worked TOGETHER and, at lunch time, Mom made sandwiches and they’d sit TOGETHER and eat lunch TOGETHER. During one of these lunches, one of my mother’s friends, Annette, dropped in for a visit. Annette was aghast that my mother was eating lunch and sitting at the same table with a BLACK woman! To make a long story short, Annette refused to talk to my mother for several months.

How stupid can you get? Refusing to talk to a friend because she ate lunch with a black woman?

Fifty years ago I was growing up in the sixties and I believe that, without Martin Luther King, things might still be stupid today.

It makes me wonder about the future.

In fifty years, when we look back on today, what will we think is stupid? Will attitudes toward gays or bisexuals be considered stupid? How about religious or political beliefs? Will today’s gender issues be considered stupid? How about attitudes toward the poor? Or the rich for that matter?

It’s something to think about!

 

 

 
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Posted by on January 16, 2012 in History, Social

 

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Faith’s Second Blog…

Yep! I started a second blog today because there have been numerous times I’ve wanted to rant or rave or just plain comment about topics that aren’t related to writing.

On this blog you can expect to see me write about the cost of living (perhaps even the cost of dying), politics, health, movies I’ ve seen, social issues, children, parents, food, finances, etc.

In other words, if it’s not about writing, I might blog about it here!

A Nursery of NEW Stars to go with my NEW blog!

 
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Posted by on January 15, 2012 in Miscellaneous

 

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